Oooh! Hypothetical's!
Jan. 20th, 2005 12:57 pmImagine you are 25 years old. You've been with your partner, the love of your life, since you were 17/18. You've both had a lot to deal with over the years and time hasn't been kind to either of you. Your partner is conscripted to fight for your country in it's bid to prove to the world that it is the better Nation. Your partner is harmed in combat. Not only is he/she physically injured but they have also sustained psychological injuries that may never go away. Your partner is discharged and you are left to try and support your partner while he/she recovers.
Unfortunately things do not go as well as you would hope and your partner develops a rare debilitating disease which freezes his/her nerves and leaves them unable to take care of themselves. You seek all forms of medical help but the bottom-line is your partner may never be able to take care of themselves again. You have to wash them, dress them, feed them, take them to the toilet, care for them, for the rest of your life. To make things even worse your partner is still haunted by the psychological traumas they experienced while in combat.
Your life as you know it is over. You may never speak to your partner again. Your partner is not likely to ever hold you, comfort you, tell you that they love ever again.
What is your first, natural, reaction? Even if you choose to stay with your partner, to look after and care for them, what is that first, gut reaction?
This is a completely hypothetical scenario. All I am interested in is what your natural reaction would be.
Unfortunately things do not go as well as you would hope and your partner develops a rare debilitating disease which freezes his/her nerves and leaves them unable to take care of themselves. You seek all forms of medical help but the bottom-line is your partner may never be able to take care of themselves again. You have to wash them, dress them, feed them, take them to the toilet, care for them, for the rest of your life. To make things even worse your partner is still haunted by the psychological traumas they experienced while in combat.
Your life as you know it is over. You may never speak to your partner again. Your partner is not likely to ever hold you, comfort you, tell you that they love ever again.
What is your first, natural, reaction? Even if you choose to stay with your partner, to look after and care for them, what is that first, gut reaction?
This is a completely hypothetical scenario. All I am interested in is what your natural reaction would be.